Hi all, I would like to know what do you think about my situation and maybe you would like to advice me something. I moved to holland for master education. Then couple of months later i met with a dutch guy and i fell in love with him. He also loves me alot. Sometimes we talk about future and he mention that he would like to be with me in the future too. But when i have a big problem i never find him beside me. He works in luxembourg and every weekend he comes to holland this is how we see eachothers. And sometimes i go there with him if i have free time. In holland i live in a student house, and now i have to move out from my apartment. I do not know dutch and if u want to search house or apartment in here every web pages are dutch. It is very difficult for me to search a place for myself in internet. My bf knows that i have to find a place asap but he does not helping me. Couple of days ago when he was in luxembourg,we were talking on MSN . And he told me that when i came there we can search together and i can help you. He came here last night and untill now he even did not ask if i am looking for a place to live. Why he is acting like this. Now he is at his garrage and busy with his hobby. I feel sry that my bf does not interest my problem. And i really need help,because i stay in my friend house now, and i have to find a place asap. Would you please share your opinion with me? Thank you ..
Singles & Dating - 4 Answers
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1 :
I am sure that this guy is not your boyfriend.
2 :
Honey, I was in same situation.. If they don't stand by you when you need them, they are not worth it... Real man will stand by you and support you in thick and thin..
3 :
don't push him hard , you see I think the reason of his behavior is the basis of your relationship if your relationship is based on sex he will not be that into your problems so any way here is my opinion you should try and have diner with him and talk the things out and tell him that you really need his help just try and change somehow your relationship the fact that he is dutch does not change any thing
4 :
If he cares for you, he would help you. But he didn't. That means he didn't care for you that much. Love is a give and take relationship.
