I'm 29, and I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy in Luxembourg for 3 years now. He said he loves me

I'm 29, and I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy in Luxembourg for 3 years now. He said he loves me.
I met this guy in Paris. He is from Italy. Then I went to China for work. He has visited me twice in Paris and twice in the Far East. That's a total of three years long distance relationship. We both spent a lot of money in internaional phone calls, sms. We chat almost everyday on yahoo. I have been trying to get employment in his area Luxembourg, but it's not one of the easiest places to find work as a teacher. But inspite of how much he "loves" me, he is not willing or ready to marry me, since he said it's against his principles. But I don't see it that way. We love each other and this distance is causing us a great deal of pain. Besides, he said I'm one woman he truly enjoys conversations and exchange of ideas, even outside of the relationship. Now I'm working on getting an employment contract in Spain, it's nearer to Luxembourg than China just to stay nearer to him. I'm now very close, it will take less than a year. But he says he wants to stop this relationship. But just this year in January our relationship underwent one of the biggest trials. He left me for a girl from Lithuania. I set him free. What good is it staying with a man who does not want you anymore? Then two months later he came back to me, saying that he went wrong. I was scared to take him back for fear he might dump me again. He promised to never leave me. So I took him back. He visited me in Beijing in July of this year and we spent 3 weeks together. Right now, he is telling me how much he loves me and that I'm now an important part of his life. Yesterday he said he wants to move on since our relationship is "impossible". But he wants to keep me as a friend. I love him so much, I'm willing to move around the world for him. But seeing him with another woman would only break my heart to pieces. Afterall he broke his promise never to leave me again. To all more 26+ individuals out there, please tell me what would you do if you were in my shoes
Singles & Dating - 8 Answers
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Wash that man right outta your hair!
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I would dump him and find another that will never dump me and stay with me and never broke my heart so take my advice in move on find someone that will never hurt u or lie that will take care of u 4 ever
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Oh hell no. When a guy leaves you for another girl and comes crawling back don't accept him back in you're life because he might do it again! you can never trust a guy like that. No wonder why he didn't wanna marry you.
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MOOOOOOOOVE ON. dont waste any more time than you have already.
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He has been dishonest with you. You can't change a dishonest person. Don't put all of your stock into a relationship that is on shaky ground. Move on and find someone that will be able to commit to you. Why waste any more of your young years on him? I stayed with a man for twelve years that would not commit. He kept saying that it would happen eventually. It didn't, and by the time I left him, I realized that I was 12 years older with less to offer, and fewer opportunities to choose from. Don't waste your life too. You deserve better.
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I'd forget about him, and move on with my life here. You really don't get to know a person until you've lived with them for quite some time, and a few weeks here and there + phone calls is NOT truly living with and learning about someone. I know this isnt what you want to hear, but you're his "fantasy" girl - he can be whoever he wants to be, or who you want him to be while hes talking to you. It's not really him. Thats why he doesn't want things moving forward at all. He knows the fantasy would be over, and he's not interested in reality. He uses you to escape from it now. It sounds like a facade, even though he probably does care for you. Thats why he doesnt want you moving to where he is - he'd have to let down the facade and disappoint you, or disappoint himself, and lose the fantasy of it all. You give him attention in the ways he needs it to feel good about himself, and its safe that way, because you're miles and miles away. He can carry on with business as usual at home, and no matter what he's done that day, he can talk to you at night and feel like a good man who is desired and loved unconditionally. You deserve more than that. You don't have to build up a man that far away - especially one who claims to care for you that much. If he really cared that much, he would have moved near you by now, or jumped at the chance for you to move near him. He's dragging his feet because he doesn't want the party to be over. Its going to hurt, but lose him.
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I would move on. It sounds like he prefers the distance because it allows him to do things with other people. Don't rearrange your life for him, because he is not willing to do it for you. If you move this relationship seems like it will end, he doesn't want anything serious from you.
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The thing about long distance relationships is that they select for the commitment-phobes... It's so easy to say "I love you" when the consequences of saying it are near-meaningless. And, as far as I've ever seen, anti-marriage "principles" go right out the window when a guy is really in love. When he's in love, he'll be ready to marry you. That's how you tell that this one isn't on the right track. Not to say that you shouldn't go to Spain. But find a nice young Spanish man to love. Nearby. ... Love is a lot about proximity and familiarity. It's not romantic to say that, but it is. Good luck!

I just graduated college with an accounting degree. I got a salary offer of 28K per year

I just graduated college with an accounting degree. I got a salary offer of 28K per year?
How many years will it take me to make as much as a 16 year old kid working at a fast food restaurant in Luxembourg?
Investing - 6 Answers
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Worry less about dollars and more about how it compares to cost of living in your area. If this is a standard entry level pay for your area (it would be for most of the midwest) then you should be fine with it. I suspect it would be lower than average for a job in San Fran or New York though, so keep looking if that is the case. As for the kid in Luxembourg working at McD's, let him worry about his own cost of living and his dead end job with no opportunities.
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Go back to college, join a union or start your own business. The later is what I did after many years as a mechanic, which by the way started at 37k per yr and when I quit I was at 93k per yr. Something is wrong when a college grad can't make at least starting trade wages. Anyway I started my own business about 5 years ago I make a little more than I did 124k approx a lot more headache and time involved but it is mine and nobody tells me what to do. So go for it do something you like.
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Starting pay for a freshly graduated accountant with the federal government is $35,752 minimum going to $52,912 in two years. You will beat the Luxemburger a lot faster if you look for a better offer.
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In accounting the entry level jobs pay squat. Always have, always will. Does this job offer you training/experience in the areas you want to specialize in? To be a CPA/CMA you have to be in public, work 80 hours a week and put in your time. No way around it. Just consider the next couple years a continuing part of your college. But instead of your paying out of pocket, you get a check.Then after 2-3 years you can start getting better gigs and better money. Well, if the economy isn't so shot that none of us can get better jobs. $28k for no experience isn't bad. Trust me. If you smartly follow a plan, you will do great with an accounting degree eventually. And consider yourself lucky, many of your fellow grads probably haven't found anything yet.
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How much could YOU make at a fast food restaurant in Luxembourg? Why not try? Didn't you check around about salary levels when you were in college?
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28K and u are complaining? that's better than most newbie college grads

Is there any possibility to become an actress

Is there any possibility to become an actress?
When she`s 29-years old, has epilepsy and just have 9th grade in school.Does extra work help and do you know about any film acting school in Luxembourg?Thanks a lot!
Theater & Acting - 2 Answers
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I don't quite understand this question but I would suggest attending acting classes or finding an acting school in Luxembourg because I'm sure there are schools for acting there. Just google search acting schools in Luxembourg and see what you find. With enough hard work, becoming an actress is possible.
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I think the only limitations you have are the ones that you put before yourself.